An elegant Georgian house perfectly situated in the rolling Cotswold countryside
Tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all,' wrote the poet Alfred, Lord Tennyson. Well yes, Tennyson, but then you never knew the pain of losing out on a house you longed to buy. The interior designer Vanessa Macdonald and her husband James tried to move on, to be rational and accepting when this happened to them, yet the image of the house continued to haunt them. Occasionally, while viewing other houses in the area, they found themselves 'just driving by', noticing once more its lovely Georgian proportions and how elegantly it sat in the gentle green folds of this unspoilt part of Oxfordshire.
One day, three years after the house was sold, they wrote to the lucky owners, suggesting that if they ever tired of its perfection, they would be only too keen to buy the house. And, miraculously, the owners did want to sell, and in the month Vanessa and James's first son Henry, now 11, had his first birthday, they had moved in. But there is always a fly in the ointment. The house was not the unimproved shell it had been when they first viewed it; ancient stone floors had been lifted, rooms switched about and new fireplaces installed. But none of this daunted Vanessa. For 13 years, she was the right hand of the late, great designer Melissa Wyndham. When Melissa died in September 2015, 'it was quite an overwhelming time', says Vanessa, but she rallied, took over the firm with Honor Hebblethwaite, and has upheld its name for excellent interior design.
There are stately homes, a cool interior for a young Hollywood actor and some super-modern London houses currently on the books and, for all of these, comfort and elegance are Vanessa's priorities - as they are in her own home. By comfort she does not mean down-filled cushions or deep armchairs, though there is no shortage of those here, but rather that ease of living when there is always a table where it is needed to put down your drink, where your chair is perfectly lit to read the paper, and the furniture arranged so it is easy to have a chat with friends.
'There is an almost inevitable way to arrange furniture in a drawing room of this size,' she says, before going on to explain the complexities of decorating really large rooms and creating different conversation areas, without making the whole space cluttered. 'It takes a bit more work, but it's doable,' she adds. It is refreshing to hear that rather than designing this room in one burst, as she would for a client, Vanessa slowly added curtains or a sofa cover as budget, or time, allowed.
One of the most time-consuming tasks is trawling through showrooms and auction houses for antique side tables of the right height and size for clients' homes, she says. Vanessa does not feel that modern tables are right for traditional country houses, though she has plans for a modern chair and lamp in the drawing room. 'You can have a bit of modernity in the country,' she says. ‘But not too much.’
I ask about the many patterned fabrics in the room, which she has cleverly combined without making them overwhelming and, while Vanessa delights in pattern and admits she has used rather more here than she might for a client, her first priorities are more structural: getting the proportions right and space planning. Their predecessors had changed this room from kitchen to drawing room, and Vanessa replaced the fireplace that they had installed with a larger one from Jamb, remade the windows and designed a large bookcase, which takes up the whole of one wall. As you look around, all these details seem as though they have always been here - a tribute to her innate sense of proportion.
Seeing the many silver-framed photographs of Henry and his younger brother Rupert, eight, in here is a surprise. 'I know!' says Vanessa. 'Melissa was always saying, ''In England, we keep family photographs in the bedroom.'' But I'm Canadian/Venezuelan.' The daughter of a nuclear physicist and a lawyer, she revelled during her childhood in Vancouver in visiting open houses - the North American habit of throwing open houses for sale to anyone who cares to visit. 'I used to look carefully and, on the way home in the car, start to sketch out their house and redo the floor plan. Lord knows what my plans looked like.' She came to London in her early twenties to work for Sotheby's, after completing its one-year American Arts course in New York in the late Nineties and later, after training at KLC, switched to interior design, eventually working with Melissa.
Like Melissa, Vanessa's husband, who works for Sotheby's, is 'very English', she says, and he insisted on a casual sitting room where the boys can watch television and the whole family relaxes. The fabrics are plainer in here and the carpet has a modern pattern, jointly designed by Melissa and Robert Stephenson. In the kitchen and dining room, on the other side of the hall, a huge table designed by Vanessa is surrounded by simple, Gustavian-inspired chairs and the windows have curtains in 'Indhira' cotton by Le Manach. The calm colours of the painted walls throughout the house are a nod to its early Georgian roots and contribute to its serene atmosphere, with Farrow & Ball 'Old White' in here, 'French Gray' in the drawing room and 'Stony Ground' in the main bedroom.
Upstairs in the main bedroom, another Jamb fireplace has been installed. 'I made a template and put it against the wall, and looked and looked at it to check the size was right,' she says. A Robert Kime fabric covers the headboard, a different strapwork-inspired fabric is used for the curtains, a specially commissioned design from Chelsea Textiles covers the dressing table, and there is an antique carpet from Robert Stephenson. Yet the room remains as tranquil as the views from its two windows.
Things are decidedly less tranquil when her cricket-mad husband and sons arrange matches on the pitch in front of the house. Made from a field they bought from a local farmer, the pitch is enclosed by a curved fence - an idea suggested by Vanessa's great friend, the designer Charles Beresford-Clark. A garden visionary, his suggestions have transformed the outside space here, with its contrasting enclosed areas and formal lawns. Hedges, copses of trees and a curved shrubbery shape the garden and frame the house in the landscape.
Another innovation has been the conversion of a former garage behind the house into a guest cottage, which means that friends who come to stay can be independent and yet feel part of the family. Vanessa had fun decorating it in a relaxed manner. She has lined the walls of the living area with painted horizontal boards made from rough-hewn timber, though getting a board with the right amount of roughness was the result of many trials. She has used plainer fabrics and more rustic furniture in here, with shutters at the windows, wooden floors and smaller rugs. It is a comfortable and easy place to be.
A tiny detail lingers when looking at this house: all the switch plates, which are the almost invisible Perspex-backed Forbes & Lomax ones, are set lower than is usual on the walls - a clever trick often employed by interior designers. 'That is where your hand naturally falls,' says Vanessa. 'And they are less intrusive at that height.' The devil is in the details, as Tennyson never wrote